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The Expedition of Reclamation: Where Liberation Meets Truth

Welcome, wild one. This is sanctuary for women who've spent decades following maps drawn by others, only to discover they've become strangers to themselves. I'm your fierce guide back to your authentic terrain—the Nicole who refuses to let you play small a moment longer.Some weeks you'll receive permission slips for your untamed self, other times the exact questions your "good girl" programming has been desperately avoiding. No manifestation snake oil, no spiritual bypassing—just real, transformative guidance for midlife women who feel that restless stirring beneath their "I'm fine" masks.Because you didn't come this far to settle for a half-lived life. Your second act isn't about gentle tweaks—it's about glorious rebellion. The cage door is unlocked. Your most authentic, vibrant chapter awaits.

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Quietly, I’m making space

Hello Reader, There’s no easy way to say this, so I’ll say it the way I say most things:Gently. Directly. And with complete love. I’m clearing my email list.Not out of ego. Not out of scarcity.But because this space is sacred.And I don’t believe in sending words to inboxes that feel more like exit doors than invitations. If you’re not opening these emails…I don’t take that personally.But I do take it seriously. Because the work I do isn’t entertainment.It’s soul excavation.It’s mirror and...

Hello Reader, You read the Burn Book.You underlined the words.You felt the heat rise in your chest — that quiet, terrifying “what if?” Now what? If you’ve been simmering quietly, waiting for the right moment to scream your truth — this is it. There are three ways to enter the fire. Choose your ritual. Let it burn. 🔥 TIER 1 — The Burn Book for the Good Girl™ – $33 A 70+ page ritual journal for the woman who’s high-functioning on the outside and hollow on the inside. Inside: Rage prompts that...

Reader, If you’ve already downloaded it — bless your brave heart. If you’ve been waiting…Watching…Wondering if you’re ready to feel again — this is it. The Burn Book for the Good Girl™ disappears at noon today. You’ve read the quotes.You’ve felt the heat.And something in you — the part that’s tired of smiling — knows: You didn’t come here for information.You came here for ignition. Inside the 60+ page ritual book: Rage prompts you won’t find on Pinterest A eulogy for the version of you that...

Reader,You’ve been polite.You’ve been calm.You’ve been so damn good at pretending it’s “not that bad.” But you know what’s worse than rage?Numbness. And I’d rather you feel fire than silence ever again. This weekend only, I’m giving you The Burn Book for the Good Girl™ – free. A 60+ pages full of rituals.For the woman who’s high-functioning on the outside and hollowed out on the inside. This isn’t a journal.It’s a funeral.And inside it, you’ll: Write the thing you were never allowed to say...

Hello Reader, I didn’t leave because I was brave.I left because I couldn’t feel myself anymore. Because the more calm I looked on the outside,the more erased I felt on the inside. They called me grounded.But I wasn’t peaceful.I was disappearing. And at some point, silence stops being a coping mechanism —and starts being a betrayal. It wasn’t a breakdown.It was a remembering. Of the woman I used to be —before she traded self for stability.Before she called being needed the same as being loved....

Reader, You called it anger. But beneath that fire… there’s grief you haven’t named yet. I sat with my anger long enough…until she told me her name was grief. For a long time, I didn’t know the difference.I thought I was angry at the system. At the expectations. At the walls I couldn’t seem to climb or break. But the deeper I went, the more I realized — I wasn’t just angry.I was grieving. Grieving the time I gave away in places that didn’t see me.Grieving the years I spent shaping myself to...

Hey love, Ever felt like you’re just existing through your days —checking boxes, showing up, getting it done…but somewhere in the quiet, you hear:“Is this it?” This week on the Midlife Moxie podcast, I’m diving into that exact moment.The one where your life looks good — but feels beige.The one where you realize success doesn’t always equal satisfaction. But here’s what I want to offer you today —Not just a podcast link, but a lifeline: That ache you feel?That boredom that won’t go away?It’s...

Dear Brave Soul... You've been sold a myth that your worth is measured by your busyness. That the more you accomplish, the more you matter. That a calendar crammed with obligations is somehow a badge of honor. What absolute bullshit. I'm calling it out because I've lived it too—the hurried existence of shuffling kids to activities, meeting corporate demands, and checking society's boxes of what a "productive" life should look like. I know intimately the exhaustion that comes from ignoring...

Hey Reader, Something ridiculously small happened in my business this week. So small it’s almost laughable. I figured out how to adjust the spacing on my new website. That’s it. A line break. A margin tweak. And yet, something about doing it myself cracked open a floodgate. I’ve had support (thank god), but I’ve also been deep in the trenches solo—writing copy, choosing colors, obsessing over fonts that feel like freedom instead of default. I'm not a trained web designer, and I’ve questioned...

Hey Reader, Let’s break the rhythm of “doing” and dip into a little playful “being,” shall we? Here’s a 3-2-1 soul snapshot from my world this week—part celebration, part curiosity, all heart. 3 Things Going Well in My Life Right Now: Date nights are back. After our vacation, my husband and I made a pact: more intentional time together. Our 25th anniversary is next week (how?!), and we’re making this season feel sacred, not routine. Spring is flirting with my flowerbeds. Hundreds of bulbs I...